Speaking about Asphyxiophilia we mean an unusual way of sexual perversions. No handcuffs, straps chains or other sex toys... No collars, masks or blindfolders.
Asphyxiophilia is something else! It implies the hanging of an individual while masturbation. The individual is partially strangling himself/herself in order to accelerate the orgasm and intensify it.

Some individuals put plastic bags on their head for this purpose. Others prefer strings lined for comfort around the neck. But sometimes things exceed the boundaries and the Game leads individuals beyond its limits. In this case when the police arrives, they find a nude dead adolescent who is ejaculated. Out for respect for individual's family, the policemen announce the verdict: an "inexplicable suicide". Actually it represents an unsuccessful sexual perversion or a BDSM.

Women seldom play this dangerous game. There is a single reason why they eagerly get involved in this action. Women hope their orgasm will be more accelerated and will lead them to "female's ejaculation"- because they can really ejaculate a kind of liquid during orgasm.
A woman doesn't need strings around her fragile neck for masturbating after all. Generally, masturbation needs fingers, sex toys and imagination. No bags on head, no pain, no violence... A delicate dildo or for instance, other sex toy is quite sufficient for making each woman being satisfied. Anal sex and its related sex toys redouble women' sexual pleasure, too.

There are situations when the active partner can suffocate the passive partner during the intercourse or while masturbating. It is because of partner's trial to intensify his sensations. In these circumstances the receiving partner is in danger. He could be easily stifled and "leave for another world", while the active partner is given the chance to go to jail. And if he is a really dedicated masochist, he will probably prefer staying among the imprisoned men and continue his former activity.

Sexual perversions are not welcomed within a healthy relationship. Couple's sexual life relies on love, respect and sexual compatibility. And if you really enjoy BDSM do not overcome the limits of every perverse game.

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Is it better to be a man or a woman? I often think about this matter. Actually I am not going to speak about social aspects of this problem. I want to share my thoughts about differences between men and women which concern sex.

On the one hand it is better to be a man. I think so because men in most cases easily achieve orgasm. You certainly know that the same cannot be said about women. As far as I know there is almost no woman who achieves orgasm every time she makes love. Some women often achieve orgasm, others rarely, and there are women who even do not know what orgasm is. There are so many articles explaining to women what they should do to teach their body to achieve climax. You certainly came across such articles telling about benefits of masturbation and use of sex toys, and there are almost no articles of this kind for men. Why? Because orgasm is not a problem for a man!

On the other hand it is certainly better to be a woman. Women have much more erogenous zones than men (actually, men have only one erogenous zone - the penis). Women can experience various kinds of orgasm. Yeah, they do not achieve orgasm every time they have sex, but their orgasm can be so diverse! Women experience clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, G-spot orgasm!

Thus it is quite natural that there are more female sex toys than male ones. There are so many cute dildos and vibrators - I especially love rabbit vibrators, men cannot enjoy them! The same can be said about nipple toys - no man will enjoy one, as male nipples are not as sensitive as women's! Men cannot wear vibrating pants - they do not have clitoris!

Is it better to be a man or a woman? It is still up to you to decide.

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A friend of mine loves playing with various objects while masturbating. Her fantasy is really inexhaustible! I don't know what about you, but so strange idea to use ordinary objects in sexual manner never came to my mind.

She makes sex toys of almost whatever she sees. Any object that reminds of penis can become a sex toy for her. Cucumbers, bananas, sausages, bottles and other kind of stuff become dildos for her. Anything that vibrates is used as a vibrator. Did you ever use an electric toothbrush or an electric razor as a vibrator? My girlfriend does so!

I understand that the idea to use an ordinary object as a female sex toy might seem amazing and quite naughty, but still, why doesn't she buy sex toys at sex shops? I asked her about this matter. Well, her answer was not surprising. First of all homemade sex toys are cheaper than those sold in sex shops. Secondly, she is embarrassed of buying sex toys and she doesn't believe that online sex shops deliver sex toys discretely. Thirdly, she does not want anyone to know that she enjoys masturbation and that she uses dildos or vibrators for this purpose, and she is not sure that she can hide her sex toys well enough.

Well, she is right in her way. But I do not think that a homemade sex toy can be better than manufactured one. Manufactured sex toys are made of safe materials and being designed specially for sexual stimulation they perfectly suit our bodies with all their needs. The same cannot be said about homemade dildos, vibrators and other "sex toys". Do you know that fruit and vegetables might contain chemicals which cause allergy? Do you know how often doctors have to take various strange objects from vaginas?

I don't think that money is more important than health. As well it is not more important than pleasure, and only right sex toy can give you real enjoyment. I choose manufactured sex toys. What about you?

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